日期：2017-09-11 16:05:04 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
First, learn to appreciate children
Children who are appreciated will be more motivated, and we should seize all appropriate opportunities to praise him. Remember, be sincere and don't praise for compliments. Praise from the bottom of your heart. For example, the child's composition is well written, it is necessary to seize the opportunity to praise his father and children; children's achievements than the last exam well, to praise him, and beyond themselves, great...... Similar to praise, I believe mothers are the most competent.
Let children enjoy the feeling of appreciation, which is the driving force of their learning. If you find that your child is learning to play the game, be sure to remind him in time. If you study now, you will be better. If you don't study, you may walk backwards. You decide for yourself. Believe that an inner desire for good children will obediently go back to study.
Two, establish a new image for your child
If unfortunately, your child is now very tired, do not love learning phenomenon, must not strengthen his performance now, don't say "how do you do not love learning ah, you see the next child, much stronger than you people" "your child in addition to learning is good not, his" speech and so on are not desirable, it will make the curing children's bad performance.
Describe the child this way. There's a visitor at home, and your child might be reading a book. You can say to the guest, "my child likes reading very much, he has very high study interest.". Describe it like this. You see, every day we are accepting other people's descriptions, and the descriptions of others affect us all. If everyone says a child doesn't like studying, what do you think he feels? Well, he probably doesn't like studying much. The child writes his homework one day even though he didn't study well in the past, but this time he writes very well, and you say, my child studies very well. To do it naturally, do not do unnatural, as if you used to be particularly rude to children, and now suddenly changed, the child does not know what to do, must be natural.
Three, learn to negotiate with children, and parents who have a position
The children appear mental weariness, you play a decisive role, you like to talk to him and the first smile, friendly smile, you will be accused of taboo, the other as an equal with you people, patted his shoulder or touch his head. Said: "it looks good (TV show). It looks fun."." "Let's go together."! Can you tell me something about it? "The end of the TV program or the end of the game." can we make an appointment?" "If you can answer a question I asked, you can play for half an hour." As long as he answers, you must fulfill your promise and build up the faith in your child's heart.
Four, discover the potential learning difficulties that children encounter
Most children who do not love to study have different levels of attention deficit, and even some children have learning difficulties. A manifestation of inattention is learning difficulties, but also the children will be reading disorder, dyslexia and other phenomena, reading is in the usual study when leakage jumps, see the word, but the word, the word image, for example in learning English, often to write B D. P written in Q. Many parents think that this is careless children, careless, bad habits of learning, in fact, the children are experiencing interference with learning difficulties. This kind of children naturally can not very good learning, many children with learning difficulties will even appear tired of learning. For the children of parents is no problem to be negligent because children are not wrong, due to help children a little help, we want to help children improve learning difficulties, to improve children's learning efficiency, so as to further improve the children's enthusiasm for learning.
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