日期：2017-10-20 15:21:30 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Marriage can be a lot of problems, often be noticed: economic problems caused by friction, one side of the child caused by willful, insecurity caused by other suspicion etc.. The reasons for these problems can be attributed to personal psychological problems, and most of them are due to the lack of adequate growth in childhood.
The most destructive psychological model of marital affection, I think, is "commitment mentality"". "Entrust" is to take care of their own responsibility to another person, which is destined to have tragic results mentality. In fact, the commitment mentality is also very common in men.
Many people enter a business, expect the enterprise to take care of his life, no matter what happens, is the enterprise is not right, must complain to the enterprise, just like the children complain when the noise. They will also entrust themselves to a craft, an industry, a social system, a government; whenever there is a problem, they are wrong, and they are powerless.
In everything to me right ", the marriage relationship is not good, but only suitable for living alone, because marriage is two people living together, and the world no two person to agree to everything.
The correct marriage emotion attitude is: I have enough ability to take care of your own life, you also have the ability to take care of their own life, and when two people together, can add extra spark, some alone cannot achieve success and happiness.
Such a relationship is 1+1=2, 3,4, and even 5. The marriage that entrusts with the mindset is just 1+1=1.1, two people all feel laborious, two people's strength is insufficient, where is success happy?
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