日期：2017-06-07 17:11:00 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
One, accusing too much
Many parents often in front of children in front of outsiders scold their children, class is not good lectures, homework slow, poor grades, will know watching TV, playing games.
This "turn iron into steel, eager to, we can understand, but this kind of negative psychological suggestion is entirely a person can be defeated, many children are not clever, also do not work, but this effort is not fully concerned, in their effort is also being scolded, denied it is a long-term negative and negative, let the children have a problem"".
Two, insufficient reading
Reading can change our character, reading to improve our understanding of life, reading can wash our hearts, for reading training needs from childhood, if the child does not have this habit, his eyes will be attracted by the external factors. In fact, parents are the best example of the child, parents can read books at home, children will naturally be affected, it will not read as a task, but a pleasure. If the parents themselves can not do it, the child will not develop the habit of reading.
Three, less communication
Many parents think that their children's life on the line, never really cared about the children in school are happy, whether to meet what difficulty, little concern for children's psychological problems. Why do many children appear rebellious psychology, often because the child's psychological satisfaction, parents and children communication is not enough. Parents do not understand the child, unwittingly killed the child's interest, the lack of hope for learning, the child has become a "problem" of the child".
For the "problem child", parents can no longer blame their children for not being smart and not trying, but rather about whether they are qualified parents.