日期：2017-03-10 14:44:07 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Baby to two years or so, you do not need so much discipline skills. But in the two and a half, into the breeding dark period can be difficult for parents, but, surprisingly, the older babies are very similar, but simple parenting skills can put their pipe smoothly.
1, parents should be good at using the baby tendency. Plan a good time for him. For example, if you can develop a good habit of sleeping for two and a half years old children, you can solve the problem every day to ask him to go to bed.
The habit and so on also to help him take off clothes, bathing, wearing pajamas, brushing teeth, at the door swing and took him into the bathroom, go to bed before going to bed, as he told the story, hug and kiss goodnight, finally he shut the lamp; these things you have to spend a lot of time, especially when you are tired when. But once they become routine, you may be able to let the baby go to sleep, rather than perfunctory or hard to let him go to bed.
Two year old baby love love doing the same immutable and frozen, he do, he is very difficult to accept any change; therefore, as far as possible, he will allow toys or personal belongings in the original place, furniture to put in the place he wanted. The child of this age requires that everything should be in the right place at the right time. All in all, he likes to keep things in order.
2, command the child, as far as possible to save his face. Ordered him not to stern; for example, to avoid using "before lunch, you must put all the toys picked up" this kind of argument, and should be recommended. "Now let's pick up these toys." if he doesn't, you don't have to urge him to answer. The best way is to change the topic or leave the scene, as far as possible in order to avoid the strong situation. When he does not want to, and you insist on him to obey orders, the last loser will often be you. You might as well divert his attention when you are in a situation where you can't argue.
For example, if the baby doesn't like to wear clothes, whether or not he wants you to dress for him, you have to avoid a violent conflict with him. Maybe you can put him in a very high place and talk to him about what will happen in the future and help him put on his clothes quickly.
It's easy to shift the attention of two and a half years old, just talk to him. Usually and a half year old baby talk, may let him hear head fog. However, chatting with two and a half years old children, even if he did not fully understand, but to attract his attention, at least to divert his attention from the previous dispute.
3, it is very difficult to make decisions for this age of the baby. So if you can make plans for the baby, tell him what will happen to you, sometimes will be very helpful.
If the baby can in order to do it again, says he knows you, and he will do it. As for the baby tantrums when and how? Many parents found the baby began to temper, the best approach is to ignore him, otherwise, once the baby found that as long as the temper, the parents will be taking it after a temper has become their biggest weapon. So, as far as possible to let the baby understand, not only lose the temper of anything, or even lose their parents care, this is very important thing.
But for the baby to temper tantrums, parents had better to nip in the bud, most parents know the baby every day in what time or what kind of circumstances make the most fierce, so at least half measures for baby temper up, is to let the baby out of such a situation will let him out of control.
4, for some age children, to give them the opportunity to choose is a very good way to discipline. Parents should also be targeted at different personality of the baby, give different choices. Like some baby knows who is very clear about what they want, it is easy to make a choice, and will persist in the end, another baby's personality is not suitable for decision; for example, the confused baby didn't know what they want, in this case, if they choose. Will only deepen their confusion.
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