日期：2017-03-29 18:30:25 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
The occurrence of a love for two men and women not related with the intimate contact, for this kind of relationship can use two words to describe -- the love and marriage. So, love and marriage what are the essential differences?
1, love is no insurance on love, marriage is on the love insurance.
Lovers are more exists in spirit, don't need wood, rice, oil, salt, raising, support, the problem such as income and expenditure; And marriage is exist in real life, daily necessities sauce vinegar tea must face every day, the problem of high and low economic income, housework pay how many, are directly facing the problem. So, we see is easier to get along, lovers and husband and wife often is flushed for little things. In love together.we have selfish side, love is not throw yourself out what all don't, a bit position in the home, in the society a little dignity, is everyone wants to get. If don't have these two points, then marriage is stepping into the "red zone", even if you don't divorce, also is very painful.
2, you are wrapped in love, you are the essence of marriage of you.
Love is a good thing, marriage is real. Fall in love, we will put the best show lovers - speak politely, cultivation, management efficiency, immediately, do what you can do, their money, its good; In marriage, we will gradually show nature.however, promises, lazy, slovenly, poor household chores, and so on. If love you is wrapped, so is the nature of your marriage. "Shell companies", if married, but at the cost would be the worst of the life. Idioms have cloud: "male be afraid of wrong line, female afraid married the wrong lang." Really want to happen, of course, doesn't mean that ruined his life, as long as you have confidence and motivation to change the status quo, through psychological counseling can help you out. Some people will be painful for a lifetime, and some people choose the pain for a while.
3, break up in love is the spirit of break up, break up break up in a marriage is a spiritual and material.
Any married man, has a certain emotional foundation, once divorce, in addition to the separation of the spirit, and the division of the material, child custody and so on a series of problems. If the red light district of into marriage, two people can sit together to talk open, points out their respective advantages and disadvantages and correct, is it not better than find another unknown? If there's room for ease in the marriage, marriage and family therapy, improve marital status; But if two people live together than independent life pain and sufferings, is not can't choose divorce. No matter how to make a choice, all need to experience a process of adaptation, a painful life.
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