日期：2017-12-27 14:25:18 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Adolescence is an adult gift of nature to children. Physical changes and psychological changes are children's transition from children to adults. During this process, children constantly seek for TA's sense of self and TA's sense of existence.
First of all, for children, adolescence is a ridge, looking for self and future direction, they begin to want to find their own answers, so they are confused and anxious. They need support very much.
While many parents are experiencing a midlife crisis, adults are beginning to find their sense of the meaning of life when they are adults, social personality coerced, moral and belief on the limit, will feel confused. For example, they bought a house, earned money, and got some kind of success, as they did in the mainstream society, but they still experienced a strong sense of unintentional sense.
Because as adults, they may also live for their parents, live for their grandparents, live for the mainstream values of society, and live for a belief system.
Maybe they have their dreams when they are very young, and they have their own pursuit, but they forget it slowly.
So as parents, we need to learn a very important thing -- we should constantly expand our pattern, expand our inclusiveness, and let our children understand that Ta can make mistakes.
Ta can grow continuously in the Ta's mistakes, because only in this way, when your child is growing up, Ta will have enough tolerance and recall ability for her mistakes.
Ta can continue to make progress in its own mistakes, instead of rushing to deny itself and criticize oneself, fear oneself to do poorly and so on, and create various anxieties. At the same time, we should focus on learning from this mistake.
Finally, to accept and trust the rhythm of the child itself, and to deal with the anxiety of the parents themselves is the real support to the children.
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