日期：2018-01-12 14:36:34 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Of course, a child's mouth is a bad habit. It is a way of outgassing. It is challenging, often intensifying contradictions, causing family disharmony and even leaving home. My daughter is 15 years old, has been on the highest level, in peacetime learning is still conscious, high grade, only he followed the fashion, not diligent and frugal. To this end I said a few words, but she often spoke to me, always emphasizing the "different times", saying that I was an old man of life, after a few days to ignore me. What should I do?
Ji'nan psychological counseling, 12 ~ 16 years old children "psychological weaning period", contact with the expansion of scope, the increase of knowledge, their inner world rich, easy for parents to produce "reverse psychology". They think they have grown up. They have different views on their life and society. They do not want their parents to take care of themselves, so they always carry on with their parents. According to statistics, about 70% of the children who love to talk back, this is a normal phenomenon.
1. for the children with problems, we can use the way of enlightening and guiding, not the shelf of parents. Only those who have self-respect and self love will go up and become people. Furthermore, lippy children very knowledgeable, connotation and resourcefulness, as long as the correct guidance, they will soon become.
2. do not blame the child easily. It is a common disease of the parents to criticize children without means and occasions. Some of the criticism is very sharp, but not entirely correct, hurt the child's self-esteem, gradually caused the child heart resentment, blame, or even hold a grudge.
So we should first clarify the reasons for criticism before children, don't criticize; need criticism, pay attention to the tone, and the way to the occasion; criticism made him most willing to accept the good at giving systematic guidance.
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