日期：2018-02-28 15:30:06 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
As the children grow up, their psychological distance from their mother is getting farther and farther. The process of growing up is the process of psychologically separated from the mother. The more open, the better it means to grow.
Unfortunately, a lot of people will form a separate part from mother and part of them in the process of growing up. This is a kind of incomplete growth. In another way, the person in this situation is not clear about the boundaries between his self and his mother.
There is always a conflict between growth and non growth in the heart of a person whose boundaries are not clear. The strength of growth is of course great. Scientists once did experiments on the power of plant growth: tie thin pumpkins with thin strips of iron, grow slowly, and easily break the bars.
The thickness of the iron bar is gradually increased until the thickness of the iron bar is ten times that of the estimated value, and it is not broken. The strength of the growth of plants is so amazing that the strength of human growth can not be measured at all. Think about what a one year old can do, and think about what a thirty year old man can do, and know what growth is going on.
But the force that does not grow is also great. This is because there are many benefits of not growing up. The first advantage is security. In the process of toddler walking, children take a few steps to turn around and hug their mothers' legs for safety. When they grow older, they can open their own doors and see a stranger walking past, closing the door and running back to embrace their mother, which is also for safety. In the heart of the child, as long as it is integrated with the mother, nothing is not afraid.
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