日期：2018-06-13 18:28:08 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
According to the degree of psychological exposure, psychological counseling in Ji'nan can be divided into acquaintances, friends and close friends. The more intimate, the higher the psychological exposure of the two people, the more they understand each other. But in the same way, intimacy will bring a lot of small problems.
(1) to avoid overreporting, we usually talk about our true thoughts only when we are close to people. And talking about behavior, especially negative emotions, can effectively relieve our psychological pressure and make us feel good. But it's not the same for listening and playing. Listening requires you to feel sympathy with others, understand their feelings, and try to comfort each other. The higher the quality of listening, the more energy it consumes.
(2) avoiding excessive courtesy is our tradition. For most people, politeness is regarded as an excellent quality. When we were young, our parents gave us an apple to eat. We could shirk it all over again. But in the adult world, politeness is often equivalent to indifference and rejection, which means I don't want to have any deep contact with you.
(3) do not interfere with others. One of the most hateful things in the world is to change the way others do and force others to accept their own ideas under the guise of "love". This is not love, but a desire for control. The most basic thing to love a person is to respect his personality and independence rather than allow him to accept what I think is right.
(4) do not infringe on privacy. The closer your friends are, the closer your psychological distance will be. This inevitably brings about a very serious problem, that is, privacy. The privacy here is not some personal information we usually say, but refers to things within the psychological boundary of the other side, which vary from person to person.
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