日期：2020-10-03 19:20:32 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
What are the errors of family education, Ji'nan psychological counseling center for you to explain:
1, ignore the "personhood" Education
The cultivation of moral quality is very important in the early life, and it has lost the key period of training and guidance. As parents, we should attach great importance to children's moral cultivation.
2, doting on their children lead to a lack of will of the child's temper
Family structure of "421" type, so that children in the family status change: six adults to a rush to spoil a child. Spoiled children have many problems, such as heartless, incompetent, no sense of responsibility, etc. The quality of the child's willpower will need to let the children in the development of practice again and again, parents should create conditions for children to create frustration education.
3, the score on the "hero", re examination scores, light learning ability
In the examination oriented, now most parents put the focus of family education knowledge and skills training is completely backward. Neglect of the most important sound personality, physical and mental quality of training and other aspects of education and training. This family education is incomplete family education is not rational, but also dangerous.
4, high investment, high expectations
Parents are very high investment in children, and therefore have high expectations of return, once the child is not satisfactory, the parents are difficult to get along with the mentality, leading to psychological gap, emotional imbalance, adversely affect the psychological.
5, physical health and mental health
Due to lack of occult work the popularization of mental health education and psychological problems, parents do not pay enough attention to the mental health of children, to understand the psychological needs of children, on children's psychological problems also do not know how to prevent and eliminate.
6, ignore the child's individual differences
The uniqueness of the development of the child, there is difference between individual characteristics and strengths, many parents do not study their children blindly, compared with other children, even down to stimulate children's self-esteem, initiative and enthusiasm to make children gradually lose learning.
7, punishment is more than praise, abuse punishment, harm the child's physical and mental health
Many parents of the child's education methods often use punishment, irony, sarcasm and corporal punishment, so that children can no longer make mistakes.
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