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济南心理咨询分析小孩喜欢发脾气的因素有哪些?
日期:2020-11-05 16:00:58 来源:www.jnzyxlzx.com

孩子喜欢发脾气父母该怎么办?文章主体从孩子为什么喜欢发脾气,主要原因在哪里?

What should parents do if children like to lose their temper? The main body of the article from why children like to lose their temper, what are the main reasons?

当遇到孩子发脾气的时候,家长需要去做的事情是非常如实地去体会当下孩子的情绪,你真实的接纳度是什么,也就是对孩子此刻正在发脾气这个事情,你是可以接纳的,还是你没有空间接纳。

When a child loses his temper, what parents need to do is to truly understand the current child's emotion. What is your real acceptance? That is, whether you can accept the child's anger at the moment, or do you have no space to accept it.

在宝宝的大脑里面,理智系统尚未完全发育,情绪系统占据主导地位,他们很难去控制自己的情绪。

In the baby's brain, the rational system is not fully developed, the emotional system is dominant, and it is difficult for them to control their emotions.

宝宝的情绪爆发很难通过爸妈干预、制止等外力而消失。在爸爸妈妈眼里,孩子的行为和情绪是“不可以”、“不应该”、“不正确”的,但是在孩子们眼里,他们根本分不出来情绪的对错,遇到事情都是本能反应,他们认为哭闹、大笑都是一样的,发脾气并没有错。

It is difficult for the baby's emotional outburst to disappear through the intervention of parents and other external forces. In the eyes of parents, children's behaviors and emotions are "can't", "shouldn't" and "are not correct". However, in the eyes of children, they can't tell the right from the wrong of emotions. They think crying and laughing are the same, and there is nothing wrong with losing temper.

孩子发脾气,其实是给到我们一个信号,告诉我们孩子他的爱箱不够了,孩子他需要我的帮助了。

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In fact, if the child loses his temper, he will give us a signal that his love box is not enough and that he needs my help.

宝宝不发脾气了,不意味着他们的坏情绪得到了解决。如果不及时帮助他们分辨、管理、解决坏情绪,下次很可能遇到不开心的事情依旧“暴走”。

The baby does not lose his temper, does not mean that their bad mood has been solved. If you don't help them to distinguish, manage and solve their bad emotions, they will probably encounter unhappy things again.

当孩子有情绪我们要倾听,以及我们自己有情绪时要自我倾听之外,也非常重视在所谓我们说的“无问题区”,也就是孩子没有情绪,我们也没有情绪的时候,我们可以多做一些什么。这样的时候,我们要去做的更多的就是给到孩子真正有质量的爱和陪伴。那么当孩子遇到问题的时候,他也会更愿意跟我们做更多有效的沟通,我们也才能够更有基础和能量,去真正支持到孩子。

In addition to listening to children when they have emotions, and to listen to ourselves when we have emotions, we also attach great importance to what we can do in the so-called "no problem area", that is, when children have no emotions and we have no emotions. At this time, what we have to do is to give children real quality love and company. Then, when children encounter problems, they will be more willing to communicate with us more effectively, so that we can have more foundation and energy to truly support children.

情绪没有对错之分,如生气、愤怒、妒忌、害怕、恐惧、贪婪、害羞、烦躁……错的只是情绪的处理方式。如果你这样认为,你就可以接纳孩子的任何情绪,并且在孩子生气时,你可以保持不会生气,不受他情绪的控制和影响。

There is no right or wrong emotion, such as anger, anger, jealousy, fear, fear, greed, shyness, irritability It's just the way emotions are handled. If you think so, you can accept any emotion of the child, and when the child is angry, you can stay calm and not be controlled and influenced by his emotions.

孩子情绪不好,也不是自己教育的失败,对于孩子来说,脾气只有存在不存在,没有正确错误之分,爸爸妈妈需要做的就是帮助孩子调节情绪,管理情绪,让他们变得更好。

Children's bad mood is not a failure of their own education. For children, there is no right or wrong temper. What parents need to do is to help children adjust their emotions, manage their emotions, and make them better.

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