日期：2016-10-21 16:42:03 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
You always believe that you and your husband love you true to the core, husband heart only you, but when her husband derailed the facts in front of him, what do you do, is acceptance, understanding, tolerance, or choose to divorce, we also understand that two people had no matter how in love, as long as there is a derailment behavior, their marriage will have cracks, no longer trust each other. In the face of such a situation of you, what should you do?
Ms. C, 29, has been married for three years and has a son. Recently, she felt that she had no love, life is full of despair. A month ago, she found her husband derailed, then to find the "mistress" made a fuss, after returning home, asked the husband, husband finally confessed to the track, apologize to her, asking her pardon, hoping to give him a chance, he will not make. Ms. C is now very painful heart, can not accept the fact, but also put her husband, do not let their children, do not know how to do.
Psychological consultation analysis:
First, before dealing with the problem, Ms. C's emotional needs to be a reasonable adjustment. When a person is in a bad mood for a long time, the impact on the physical and psychological is huge, therefore, look at the problem will not be rational, will directly affect the individual's decision-making. Secondly, in the face of problems, to let Ms. C understand what they want, how to make their own future is not painful, do not regret it, and then take action.
Finally, we must understand that marriage is their own, not because of external causes and to make themselves into a passive. In many cases, people in the face of the problem of the partner derailment, I do not know what they want, can not make a rational judgment on their future, the final injury is still their own. At this time, we may wish to accept the treatment of professional counselors, through psychological counseling, effective nursing care of their psychological, is in their marriage on the road of growth strong.
When you unfortunately become a betrayal of marriage in the people, do not let yourself sad for too long, because you have to plan for the future, short frustrated is not important, important is how to make their own way to see the road ahead. Don't let yourself fall into despair, finally can only say, what to take to save you, my marriage!