日期：2017-01-06 10:51:35 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Unfortunately, the marriage will make couples feel like walking in the mud, both sides hope to go easily, but find themselves the harder the more pain. Poor communication between husband and wife, the husband and wife can not communicate with each other as long as the two sides hinder the progress of. Ji'nan psychologist for your interpretation: a couple of poor communication and how to do?
Case: Mr. W, because of marital problems to psychological counseling. My wife and I have been married for 1 years, because at that time the family hurried to get married. After marriage, all kinds of problems come out, although I love her very much, but the two of us are not happy. There is no communication between us, there is no common topic, there is no space, and we are introverted, will not communicate. I do not know how to defend the marriage, and sometimes even want to divorce her, so she.
Ji'nan counselors answer: Mr. W, hello. I can feel your pain in this marriage, I hope I can solve the problem, but I find a way to solve the problem. For you to realize that marriage, you are rough outline, I believe that a person in the face of problems, eager to be resolved, it will be a detailed description of the problem between the two. I don't know if you have a description of what you are doing, and I don't know if you are not good at expressing the relationship between two people If you are not good at expression, I believe you may not be good at expression.
You may not be able to understand your heart because of their bad words, or your wife is not really want to read your heart. If it is because of the expression, then we can improve themselves, so that they are better at communication, so that communication between husband and wife will be more smooth. If the other party is not willing to understand us, then we need to adjust the relationship between husband and wife. Do we understand each other when we don't understand each other.
Maybe we throw ourselves a lot of problems, why get married? Why is that? Why doesn't she understand me? These problems will bring us into the accused territory, at this time, I also hope that we will solve their own problems, and then to touch the feelings, whether your problem is not solved, when you're in the middle of the relations between the various contradictions and in the complex, you will be helpless, panic, and even thought Dutch act.
Ji'nan psychological counseling center reminder: any marriage is impossible, the boundless plain Everything is going smoothly. miscommunication but also parents, husband and wife common things, the key is that we can analyze and solve the problem. At this time you may need to help the professional marriage psychological counseling experts.