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济南心理咨询中心讲解独生子女容易患5种心理病
日期:2017-04-12 11:59:41 来源:www.jnzyxlzx.com

  计划生育的实行让中国出现了很多独生子女,家庭的溺爱、孤单等因素让这些孩子出现很多心理问题,下面济南心理咨询中心来看看独生子女容易患5种心理病。

  The practice of family planning for China there are many only children, factors such as family spoiling, lonely and let the children a lot of psychological problems, let's look at the one-child prone to 5 kinds of mental illness.

  1、胆小好哭济南心理咨询

  1, timid good cry

  整天只与父母打交道,一切都由父母包办代替,失去了动手能力,也没有与小同伴竞争玩耍的机会,变得胆小、害怕困难,一遇到挫折、痛苦就会哭。这是由过度的保护形成的过分懦弱。

  All day only dealing with parents, everything is arranged by their parents, lost the beginning ability, also have no chance to compete with small companion to play, become timid, afraid of difficulties, a setback, pain will cry. It is formed by excessive protection too weak.

  2、神经质,喜怒无常

  2, neurotic, moody

  一不顺心就大哭大叫,发脾气扔东西,表面上非常主观执拗,样样事情自己说了算,否则就吵闹不休,而实质上是情绪不稳定,借机发泄。吵起来胆子很 大,离开父母又非常怯懦。孩子所以形成脆弱的感情,是因为大人环境带来了孩子接受不了的刺激,孩子就像玩具一样的生活,得不到自然发展,加上父母不断“灌 输”过沉的知识,这都对孩子神经系统的平衡带来危害。过多的“教育”、过多的刻板刺激造成了多得惊人的神经质孩子。

  A frustrated wept much cry, lost his temper, throwing things on the surface is very subjective stubborn, everything is in charge, there have been thousands of quarrels between the otherwise, and is essentially emotional instability, the chance to vent. Quarrelling courage is very big, apart from their parents and very timid. Children so form a fragile feelings, because adult environment has brought the children to accept the stimulus, children like toys of life, not natural development, combined with the knowledge of the parents have "lost" too heavy, it has a harmful effect on children nervous system balance. Too much of the "education", excessive rigid stimulation caused an amazing neurotic child.

  3、性格孤僻

  3, withdrawn character

  独生子女整天关在家里,与外界和小伙伴很少来往。见到别人家的孩子来了可能开心得不得了,甚至当小伙伴回去时会拉着对方不放手。独生子女心灵的 孤独是生活天地狭小造成的。独生子女孤僻的独特性是好自言自语,好像成人一样罗嗦,经常反复思考一个问题,过了很久,还会向爸爸妈妈问同一个问题。这种追 根问底的特点,可能反映了孩子的好学,也许反映了孩子思维的呆板和不易转移。

  The one-child shut at home all day, and rarely associate with the outside world. See other people's children come may be happy, even when the junior partner back pulling each other not to let it go. The one-child heart lonely life is heaven and earth is narrow. The uniqueness of the one-child withdrawn is good to himself, like adult bothersome, repeatedly think about a problem, often after a long time, also to mom and dad asked the same question. The characteristics of the track were the likely reflects the child's academic, perhaps reflecting children thinking inflexible and difficult to transfer.

  4、心理早熟

  4, the psychological precocious

  早熟并不是缺点,许多才华聪颖的人都是早熟的。独生子女的早熟具有“小大人”的特点。因为他没有与兄弟姐妹同级心理活动的交往,只得整天与大人 打交道。爸爸为什么背着妈妈抽烟,爸爸妈妈为什么吵架,这些本不是小小年纪的人需要了解的事,他都了解,还参与意见。一个4岁的小女孩坐在沙发上评判爸爸 妈妈争吵中的是非,让人听起来真要笑破肚皮,可孩子讲起来却一本正经。

  Puberty is not faults, many intelligent people are precocious talent. Only children precocious has the characteristics of the "small people". Because he has no relationship with brothers and sisters at the psychological activity of all day dealing with adults. Why smoking behind mom dad, mom and dad why quarrel, the book is not a little older people need to know, he has to understand, also participated in the comments. A four-year-old girl sitting on the sofa to judge mom and dad are in quarrel, makes it sound really want to smile to break belly, and the children, but in all seriousness.

  5、身体和心理的娇气

  5, physical and psychological effeminacy

  娇气往往只被人理解为行为上的撒娇、耍赖,其实娇气意味着软弱无能。现代家长往往忽视耐寒、吃苦、负重对孩子意志培养的重要性,这是人赖以生存的重要能力,可惜的是独生子女得不到方面的锻炼。有人叹息,“现在的男孩、女孩已经没有上一辈人刚强了”,这句话并不是耸人听闻。受了别的孩子的气就跑到家里向妈妈发火,老师要他冲洗厕所就哭鼻子,这都是没志气的表现。

  Effeminacy tend to be understood to act in pettish, play to depend on, actually effeminacy means weak. Modern parents tend to ignore hardy, endure hardship, the importance of weight to the child will develop, it is important to the survival of people ability, it is a pity the one-child without exercise. Somebody sigh, "now, boys and girls have no previous generations strong", this sentence is not sensational. By the breath of the other children ran to the house to the angry mother, the teacher asked him to flush toilets, crying, this is no ambition.

  独生子女易患的心理疾病其实还有很多,上面这几种仅是比较有代表性的几种。而孩子一旦受到心理疾病的侵袭,其身心健康将受到极大的影响,甚至会影响孩子的一生。

  Only children are susceptible to mental illness, there are also a lot of the above several is only the comparison of several representative. And children affected by mental illness once, its great impact on the physical and mental health, even can affect a child's life.


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