日期：2017-04-28 10:30:37 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
Before marriage, I didn't see three autumn days, and some people came together with strong resistance from their parents. But the prospect of a marriage is replaced by the oil and salt, and the small and trivial contradictions are growing. In fact, the conflict that appears after marriage has psychological factor.
1, reverse psychology
The so-called boomerang is acting on individuals of the same thing more than the limit of individual sensory accept, make the individual sense of saturation after a rather experience. The more you don't get, the more you want to get in touch. Once you get it, you don't cherish it. The greater the resistance, the greater the barrier and the stronger the pursuit. And once the true connection, the initial urge and the desire to compete vanished.
2, the psychology of falling
The distance between ideal and reality creates an internal imbalance. A psychologist lists such a formula: a happy life = a realistic expectation. What it means is that the degree of a happy life depends on the difference between the real and the expected value. When the difference is positive, the life is happy and happy. When the difference is zero, life appears to be stable. When the difference is negative, you will be disappointed. Marriage makes simple relationship between the sexes evolution for the survival relationship of interdependence, once upon a time in love when the coffee shop, restaurant, teahouse, is now POTS and pans dings. Survival also brought new relationships on the basis of architecture in the common life, such as the father-in-law mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and son-in-law, sister-in-law and sister-in-law, etc, etc, the relationship between all these things, and greatly reduce score value of reality, and between expectations and there is not a short distance, let a person produce psychological, the gap between feel frustrated and disappointed.
The mystery disappears
Mystery is an important factor of emotional gravity, it make the person produces the hazy beauty like full moon, like a hazy, the water after parting lovers imagine interest, and have a great interest to explore each other's personality. The contact between lovers is intermittent and loose, and the distance between time and space often makes the lovers idealize and beautify each other. After married couples live together, almost every day at this time of contact is continuous, close, two people are very real to show in front of each other, in order to obtain the other original goodwill and disguised his shortcomings also exposed, easy to alternate discontent.
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