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婚前恐惧症的三种表现情况
日期:2017-06-09 16:58:55 来源:www.jnzyxlzx.com

1.认为双方还不够了解,对恋爱对象没有信心,总认为他不是最适合的婚姻对象。一想到两个人要在一起过一辈子,就感到不安,我们真的会幸福吗?他能承担婚姻的责任吗?他会对我的家人进行照料吗?这些这对伴侣的疑问总是让自己信心不断下跌,对婚姻也越来越害怕。

1., that the two sides are not enough understanding, no confidence in the object of love, always think he is not the most suitable marriage object. It makes us feel happy to think of two people living together for the rest of their lives Can he shoulder the responsibility of marriage? Will he take care of my family? These questions about their partner always make their confidence falling, and they become more and more afraid of marriage.

2.担心与对方的家人相处不融洽。尤其是要嫁到男方家的女性,有的要面临和婆婆生活在一个屋檐下,而婆媳关系自古是个难题,与他们一起生活肯定要受到多方约束,这样的生活真的会快乐吗?

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2. worry about getting along with each other's family. Especially to the man's family to marry women, some have to face and mother-in-law lives in a house, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law since ancient times is a problem, and live with them must be multi constraint, this life is really happy?

3.担心婚姻会让两人的爱情失色。虽然说“婚姻是爱情的坟墓”有点夸张,但热烈的爱情的确会在婚姻生活的琐碎中消磨至平淡,对于有些视爱情如生命的人来说,这怎么能忍受?

3. worry about marriage will make two love pale. Although it is a bit exaggerated to say "marriage is the grave of love", but passionate love will indeed kill in the trivial of marital life. For some people who regard love as life, how can they stand it?

解决的方式:

Solution:

1.充分了解你的伴侣。可以充分思考一下,你为什么要与他/她结婚,你是否真的要与他/她结婚,他/她是否是你合适的伴侣等,如果你不怀疑他成为你的伴侣的可能性,就要相信他/她能够给你带来幸福,至于未来的困难,能先不要管它吗?

1. know your partner well. Can fully consider, why do you want to get married with him / her, if you really want to get married with him / her, he / she will be your right partner, if you don't doubt that he is likely to become your partner, we must believe that he / she can bring happiness to you, as for the difficulties in the future first, don't it?

2.与你的伴侣的家人尝试相处。“接受他,就等于接受他的家庭”,这句话是有道理的,如果对方的家人对你没有严重的排斥,不会恶言相向,那就都不成问题,而且在婚前就可以尝试磨合,不要等到结婚以后再突然尴尬的相处。

2. try to get along with your partner's family. "Accept him is to accept his family", this sentence is justified, if the other family members have no serious rejection of you, not acrimony, it is not a problem, but before you can try to run along until you get married later suddenly embarrassed.

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