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“心理断乳期”后孩子的自尊心是非常敏感的
日期:2018-01-12 14:36:34 来源:www.jnzyxlzx.com

  孩子顶嘴当然是坏习惯,是一种出气的方法,带有挑战性,常常激化矛盾,造成家庭不和,甚至引起离家出走。我女儿15岁,已上高一,平时学习尚自觉,成绩中上等,只是他紧跟时尚,不勤俭节约。为此我说了她几句,可她常常与我顶嘴,总是强调“时代不同了”,说我是老生常谈,顶嘴后几天不理我。我应该怎么办?

  Of course, a child's mouth is a bad habit. It is a way of outgassing. It is challenging, often intensifying contradictions, causing family disharmony and even leaving home. My daughter is 15 years old, has been on the highest level, in peacetime learning is still conscious, high grade, only he followed the fashion, not diligent and frugal. To this end I said a few words, but she often spoke to me, always emphasizing the "different times", saying that I was an old man of life, after a few days to ignore me. What should I do?

  济南心理咨询认为,12~16岁是孩子的“心理断乳期”,随着接触范围的扩大,知识面的增加,他们的内心世界丰富了,极易对父母产生“逆反心理”。他们认为自己已经长大了,对社会、对人生有着与父母不同的看法,不要父母处处管自己,于是与父母时时顶嘴,事事抬扛。据统计,爱顶嘴的孩子约占70%,这是一种正常现象。

  Ji'nan psychological counseling, 12 ~ 16 years old children "psychological weaning period", contact with the expansion of scope, the increase of knowledge, their inner world rich, easy for parents to produce "reverse psychology". They think they have grown up. They have different views on their life and society. They do not want their parents to take care of themselves, so they always carry on with their parents. According to statistics, about 70% of the children who love to talk back, this is a normal phenomenon.

济南心理咨询

  1.对有问题的孩子,可以用启发、引导的方式,不摆家长的架子。只有自尊自爱的人,才会奋发向上,成为有作为之人。再者,爱顶嘴的孩子很有见识、内涵和智谋,只要正确引导,他们会早日成才的。

  1. for the children with problems, we can use the way of enlightening and guiding, not the shelf of parents. Only those who have self-respect and self love will go up and become people. Furthermore, lippy children very knowledgeable, connotation and resourcefulness, as long as the correct guidance, they will soon become.

  2.不要轻易责备孩子。常常不讲方式、场合地批评孩子,是父母的通病。有些批评十分尖锐,却不完全正确,伤了孩子的自尊心,渐渐引起孩子内心的愤恨、埋怨,甚至记仇。

  2. do not blame the child easily. It is a common disease of the parents to criticize children without means and occasions. Some of the criticism is very sharp, but not entirely correct, hurt the child's self-esteem, gradually caused the child heart resentment, blame, or even hold a grudge.

  所以批评孩子前先要弄清缘由,不要乱批评;需要批评时,要注意语气、场合和方式;批评时要循循善诱,使他心甘情愿接受。

  So we should first clarify the reasons for criticism before children, don't criticize; need criticism, pay attention to the tone, and the way to the occasion; criticism made him most willing to accept the good at giving systematic guidance.

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  This article is provided by Ji'nan psychological consultation. Our website is: http://www.jnzyxlzx.com, we will provide you with better service with wholehearted enthusiasm. Welcome your visit.


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