日期：2018-02-26 15:36:13 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
In dealing with marital conflicts, we need to be aware of their responsibilities. When we feel dissatisfied and complaining, we see each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. If we can "stop" and look at ourselves, we will find the real source of the mood at the moment.
Besides seeing each other's shortcomings and faults, we should also ask ourselves: what role do we play in these problems?
Every one of us has an inner defense, more or less in an irrational way of dealing with relationships. In dealing with conflicts, we should not only understand our own emotions, but also understand each other's dissatisfaction, complaints, or attacks. If we can understand that each other's emotions seem to be pointing at you, actually they are from other places, our hearts will be filled with compassion and tolerance.
When a man is angry, it is the most fragile time in her heart. Our best reaction is not to fight back, but to hold her feelings and support her. When necessary, do the "trash can" of her mood, too.
Just as some people are angry, they use their hands to beat the wall. If you really love her, then do a real wall, then why not. When the other person is "playing" tired, she will know that the resentment is not a wall. When she dumped all her bad emotions, she knew that it was not a trash can. So, when the other person's emotional instability, we must be stable. The best regulator of marriage is yourself.
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