日期：2017-07-07 18:11:59 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
First of all, the candidates face the exam is an uncertain factor. Before the exam, no one can guarantee how many points he scores safely. If you feel that you must be admitted to a university, is to ignore the examination uncertainty, there will be higher requirements on their own, and subjectively believe that people can control the examination results, will produce enormous mental pressure.
Secondly, it is not heaven and hell that can not go up to a famous university. Going to a key university does not mean that life has been successful, so you don't have to struggle any more. The road of life is long, the real efforts behind, the success of the business depends more on the efforts and struggle after graduation. If you think you can't get the first college in your mind, it means that you have failed in life, that is, you will oppose the opposites. This opposition inevitably aggravates anxiety.
Thirdly, we must be admitted to a famous university, which reflects the vanity of human beings. The real motive behind it is not self actualization, but blind comparisons. This place more than others as the goal of mentality, will make people feel uneasy and anxious, because it is completely around the personal gains and losses. However, to test the ideal university as inferior things in a constant state of anxiety.
Finally, we must go to a university, but also reflect the lack of confidence in ourselves, and want to cover up their inferiority through "famous brand". Remember, when a few college students graduate, they throw all their notes and professional books away, or they deal with it. They cheer and don't have to study anymore. They don't have to read any more. I doubt how much of this knowledge they will have in college, but after graduation I need to study and work harder. In modern society, there is nothing permanent to ensure that we enjoy life.
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